Time is slipping,
in seconds,
moments,
blinks,
I long,
For time to stay,
calm and mellow,
Where I can,
fall in love,
And find myself,
Again...
Showing posts with label moments. Show all posts
Showing posts with label moments. Show all posts
Tuesday, 14 September 2021
Friday, 2 February 2018
Embracing Motherhood
Motherhood is a different journey. Different then any of the others anyone has ever been on. It takes so much of you but it completes you. It teaches you so many things.
Motherhood takes strength. It takes time. It takes the whole of you. It's tough. It's all that and it's beautiful.
It's all of those moments when you think you're done with everything and it's all of those moments when you think it's just a beginning. It begins when you think everything is over. It begins when you think you can not do it anymore. It begins when you break down. It begins when you are at your wit's end. It begins when you are on the verge.
It rises you up again and it makes you whole, complete. It gives you back all of your strength. I'd not have known this, if I wasn't a mother.
If I was not a mother, I'd never have wiped a sticky smelly butt with so much love in my heart. If I was not a mother, I'd never have woken up, a hundred times a night and looked at a sleeping baby, just to make sure she's all okay and comfy in her sleep. If I was not a mother, I'd never have compromised on my hygiene and care, never slept in a puked-on PJ and letting go of oiling a my hair every once in a while.
If I was not a mother, I'd never have slept odd hours and still be ready for the next day. If I was not a mother, I'd never have been so happy over a dirty nappy after days of little constipated tummy. If I was not a mother, I'd not ever have been so much happy that I'd burst crying with love and joy, over little steps, first words, first foods.
If I was not a mother, I'd never have been happy over a dirty face, dirty table but a full tummy. If I was not a mother I'd never have been over joyed for a smile after a bad, cranky day. If I was not a mother, I'd never have felt the sparkle in the little eyes upon seeing me.
If I was not a mother, I'd not have known that simple joys of life would bring immense tranquility in my heart and in my life.
Also, If I was not a mother, I could have blogged all of this last year when I actually wrote it. :)
Motherhood takes strength. It takes time. It takes the whole of you. It's tough. It's all that and it's beautiful.
It's all of those moments when you think you're done with everything and it's all of those moments when you think it's just a beginning. It begins when you think everything is over. It begins when you think you can not do it anymore. It begins when you break down. It begins when you are at your wit's end. It begins when you are on the verge.
It rises you up again and it makes you whole, complete. It gives you back all of your strength. I'd not have known this, if I wasn't a mother.
If I was not a mother, I'd never have wiped a sticky smelly butt with so much love in my heart. If I was not a mother, I'd never have woken up, a hundred times a night and looked at a sleeping baby, just to make sure she's all okay and comfy in her sleep. If I was not a mother, I'd never have compromised on my hygiene and care, never slept in a puked-on PJ and letting go of oiling a my hair every once in a while.
If I was not a mother, I'd never have slept odd hours and still be ready for the next day. If I was not a mother, I'd never have been so happy over a dirty nappy after days of little constipated tummy. If I was not a mother, I'd not ever have been so much happy that I'd burst crying with love and joy, over little steps, first words, first foods.
If I was not a mother, I'd never have been happy over a dirty face, dirty table but a full tummy. If I was not a mother I'd never have been over joyed for a smile after a bad, cranky day. If I was not a mother, I'd never have felt the sparkle in the little eyes upon seeing me.
If I was not a mother, I'd not have known that simple joys of life would bring immense tranquility in my heart and in my life.
Also, If I was not a mother, I could have blogged all of this last year when I actually wrote it. :)
Saturday, 13 December 2014
Random Thoughts About Life
Assalam o Alaikum and Greetings!
So, my dear dear readers, as the name suggests this is going to be a random array of thoughts jotted down in comfort of my nest in a cold December afternoon.
I think when it comes to relationships, possibilities and chances are two different things. They somehow don't sync in this context.
Happiness leads it's own ways. It does'nt really depend on situations or materialistic things. If you are willing, you can be happy with nothing in your hands. The strangest thing about happiness is, it increases when you spread it. Also, it's contagious. You see one of your loved one happy, there is no way you are not going to feel your heart jumping with joy.
The way you perceive things is the way you will lead your life. That is the reason why everyone emphasizes on being optimistic. You take things in a positive manner and you lead life with positivity.
Life doesn't stop for you or for anyone else. It goes on, as it has to go on. The people at the end, only remain in heart.
Sometimes, you keep so much in your heart, it starts hurting like never before. A good way to channel your emotions and energies out is very necessary or the burden on the heart will only get heavier and you will end up stuck somewhere you don't want to be, without anymore energy to move on.
It's very important to cherish people in your life. Thank you is a word you should constantly be saying to those around you. It lets others know you don't take take them for granted, you value them and the things they do for you are appreciated. It strengthens your bond, gives it meaning.
You see, there is a thing about human beings. As much as we crave for love, we crave for appreciation too. We need appreciation as we go on. We will drop down if not appreciated, our talents get covered with hopelessness. Learn to appreciate things and people around you.
Love should always be expressed.
Things don't Just happen. Everything, every moment, every event happens for a reason. It just takes us a really long while to reach to reason. But as we go through life, we should always keep in mind, there was a way things happened, it shall be worthed in the end.
And ladies and gentlemen, that is that for now. Hope to see you soon again. Thank you so much for your appreciation and kind words. It gives me a reason to write and more importantly, a reason to smile.
More things will be coming your way soon. A lot of big updates of my life too.
Oh and did I tell you all? There has been an addition to my wonderful family. My niece was born in October. She is the joy of my heart and the twinkle of my eye.
Hope to see you soon again. :)
Sending smiles and love.
So, my dear dear readers, as the name suggests this is going to be a random array of thoughts jotted down in comfort of my nest in a cold December afternoon.
I think when it comes to relationships, possibilities and chances are two different things. They somehow don't sync in this context.
Happiness leads it's own ways. It does'nt really depend on situations or materialistic things. If you are willing, you can be happy with nothing in your hands. The strangest thing about happiness is, it increases when you spread it. Also, it's contagious. You see one of your loved one happy, there is no way you are not going to feel your heart jumping with joy.
The way you perceive things is the way you will lead your life. That is the reason why everyone emphasizes on being optimistic. You take things in a positive manner and you lead life with positivity.
Life doesn't stop for you or for anyone else. It goes on, as it has to go on. The people at the end, only remain in heart.
Sometimes, you keep so much in your heart, it starts hurting like never before. A good way to channel your emotions and energies out is very necessary or the burden on the heart will only get heavier and you will end up stuck somewhere you don't want to be, without anymore energy to move on.
It's very important to cherish people in your life. Thank you is a word you should constantly be saying to those around you. It lets others know you don't take take them for granted, you value them and the things they do for you are appreciated. It strengthens your bond, gives it meaning.
You see, there is a thing about human beings. As much as we crave for love, we crave for appreciation too. We need appreciation as we go on. We will drop down if not appreciated, our talents get covered with hopelessness. Learn to appreciate things and people around you.
Love should always be expressed.
Things don't Just happen. Everything, every moment, every event happens for a reason. It just takes us a really long while to reach to reason. But as we go through life, we should always keep in mind, there was a way things happened, it shall be worthed in the end.
And ladies and gentlemen, that is that for now. Hope to see you soon again. Thank you so much for your appreciation and kind words. It gives me a reason to write and more importantly, a reason to smile.
More things will be coming your way soon. A lot of big updates of my life too.
Oh and did I tell you all? There has been an addition to my wonderful family. My niece was born in October. She is the joy of my heart and the twinkle of my eye.
Hope to see you soon again. :)
Sending smiles and love.
Sunday, 20 October 2013
Story of September
Assalam O alaikum and Greetings Everyone!
I know I have been away for so many days, I am so busy right now! Haunted by finals, but I have had alot of fun too! I have enjoyed September and October ALOT-
So let me tell you the list of things I got to do and that made me happy as a bee:
My finals are near and I am dreading them. Also I have had the last day of my college and it was weird going out of that door and knowing you're never going to do this again the same way. I will be having my farewell soon too. As much as I am hating to leave the college I can proudly say I have had totally amazing years here and I have made moments memorable. Specially in the last year I did everything I wanted to do. I have a crazy best friend who was there in everything I did. I enjoyed and loved those moments.
I know I have been away for so many days, I am so busy right now! Haunted by finals, but I have had alot of fun too! I have enjoyed September and October ALOT-
So let me tell you the list of things I got to do and that made me happy as a bee:
- Mid-night birthday chants
- A bouquet
- Wishes coming true
- Lunch TWICE with the best friends
- Shopping with buddies
- Magical, magical, totally amazing blessed hugs!!!
- Favourite person on earth appreciating the deeds
- A surprise gift!
- Cakes
- Baby girl born to a great friend!
- Bought shoesssss!! (I love buying shoes)
- Planned some great stuff with best friend
My finals are near and I am dreading them. Also I have had the last day of my college and it was weird going out of that door and knowing you're never going to do this again the same way. I will be having my farewell soon too. As much as I am hating to leave the college I can proudly say I have had totally amazing years here and I have made moments memorable. Specially in the last year I did everything I wanted to do. I have a crazy best friend who was there in everything I did. I enjoyed and loved those moments.
Monday, 29 July 2013
Just Vanished!
Between those things I vanish,
In those words and some phrases,
You would see me there, Vanished.
In all those moments and all those times,
When you see people happy and getting around,
You would see me there, Vanished.
Like an insect I could die, like a butterfly I could flutter,
But between the fluttering and dying,
You would see me there, Vanished.
Blinking my eyes and stopping the tears,
Trying to appear calm and strong,
While holding myself, you would see me there, Vanished.
Talking and laughing, playing around,
Doing everything that you'd do too,
You would see me there... Vanished!
Over and Out with a promise to bring something good to you next time!
In those words and some phrases,
You would see me there, Vanished.
In all those moments and all those times,
When you see people happy and getting around,
You would see me there, Vanished.
Like an insect I could die, like a butterfly I could flutter,
But between the fluttering and dying,
You would see me there, Vanished.
Blinking my eyes and stopping the tears,
Trying to appear calm and strong,
While holding myself, you would see me there, Vanished.
Talking and laughing, playing around,
Doing everything that you'd do too,
You would see me there... Vanished!
Over and Out with a promise to bring something good to you next time!
Monday, 22 April 2013
Things, People, Moments, Emotions.
Assalam O Alaikum and Greetings!
How have you all been? How has life been... Sorry I have forgotten how to start.. And sorry for being away for such a long while.. Well now I am here.. Let's talk!
There are some people, who try to bring you down, who make false stories and try poisoning your people, they will do it even when you have nothing against them, when you have been only good towards them, they'll still do this, just to do this.
And then there are people who, no matter what, stick to you, stay with you, those are the people who'll always trust you, these are the people we should all recognize in our lives and we should let them know that they matter to us. We should thank God for blessing us with those people. We should cherish our moments with them. Life may not give you many chances to make sure your people know that you value them, so let them know.
There're moments in life when you think you're one lucky gem, when you think you've been blessed, when you think life has so much to offer. We should all absorb those moments. We should all hold onto them.
Love the moments, love people and make sure you always stay thankful for them. These are things in life which sometimes go un noticed... I think they should'nt.
And who ever here is reading this blog, this particular post: You're this one amazing person, stay awesome and love things around you and Smile!
How have you all been? How has life been... Sorry I have forgotten how to start.. And sorry for being away for such a long while.. Well now I am here.. Let's talk!
There are some people, who try to bring you down, who make false stories and try poisoning your people, they will do it even when you have nothing against them, when you have been only good towards them, they'll still do this, just to do this.
And then there are people who, no matter what, stick to you, stay with you, those are the people who'll always trust you, these are the people we should all recognize in our lives and we should let them know that they matter to us. We should thank God for blessing us with those people. We should cherish our moments with them. Life may not give you many chances to make sure your people know that you value them, so let them know.
There're moments in life when you think you're one lucky gem, when you think you've been blessed, when you think life has so much to offer. We should all absorb those moments. We should all hold onto them.
Love the moments, love people and make sure you always stay thankful for them. These are things in life which sometimes go un noticed... I think they should'nt.
And who ever here is reading this blog, this particular post: You're this one amazing person, stay awesome and love things around you and Smile!
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